Lady Catherine: Producer
Lady Catherine (she/her), affectionately known as SELF Spackle, is an educator and Master Certified Life Coach, a Certified Mentor Coach (CMC), and a Board Certified Coach (BCC). I teach classes that focus on relationships, play-oriented SM skills, Dominance and Submission, improving your sex life, gender, house management, personal foundations, leadership, activism and theory.
I have been active in various communities for decades. I have served on local and national boards, judged contests, staffed conferences, emceed and produced fund-raisers for various charities/organizations.
I love my volunteer work for SELF. It feeds me by the happiness created on the smiling faces who attend. I am a proud Board member of the Leather Archives and Museum. I have held memberships in FIST, MOB, LSM, NLA-I, BbD, Low Country Leather and a few other groups.
I am a founder of the Women's Leather History Project/Program. A charter board member and organizer of FireBalls MC. I am also a founder of LoL in NYC (women's educational/play weekend in NYC from 1994-1998 for 350+ women). A charter board member and founder of True Spirit Conference.
I have presented classes at conferences and clubs internationally. I have taught classes steadily and teach approximately 140+ hours a year. Between educating and coaching, I have five figures of hours teaching in my lifetime and will continue to be devoted to learning.
I am the recipient of Black Rose's Vaughn Keith National Educator Award presented November 2002, Pantheon of Leather Southeast Regional Award 2006, Pantheon Business of the Year 2006, Jack Stice Memorial Award 2016, 2017 MAsT-International Educator of the year award, and 2018 Lady Lynette Leadership Award.
Visit my coaching site for more information www.foryourlifecoach.com or www.bdsmclasses.com. Connect with me on FETLIFE or follow me on Twitter! @BDSMClasses or @SuccessCoachMCC (vanilla coaching twitter acct).
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Jack: Operations / Registration
I'm currently calling the Baltimore/DC area home. I am a member of FIST. I relocated to Baltimore from the Denver area. While in the Denver area I served as a long term facilitator of COLLAR. I was also fortunate enough to volunteer for Thunder in the Mountains dungeon build crew for many years. The last few years I was there I lead the design and build of what at the time was the largest dungeon west of the Mississippi, if not the country. I was a founding member of MAsT-Denver, and an active member of several different versions of the Labyrinth as well as the Sanctuary and other groups in the Rocky Mountain region. I have been a proud piercer at The Colorado Danse of Life, a traditional hook pull. I also enjoy teaching leather life skills such as bootblacking, piercing, etc.
When asked how I identify I usually say something along these lines... dyke, butch, gender fluid, poly, Papa/Daddy/Sir, switch and let's not forget boy for someone special! Oh, and tree hugger and wanna-be vegan would be fair labels too. But I am the ever evolving kind so hopefully there will be a few more to add soon.
I proudly serve as the SELFs operations assistant. It's a busy job and I enjoy the variety of duties and opportunities that comes with it! If you see me out and about please introduce yourself, I would love to meet you.
Scarlett: Operations Lead and Programming
Scarlett (she/her) has been active in the BDSM community for more years than she wants to admit and started her leather journey here at SELF in 2017. She is a polyamorous, babygirl switch with a definite sadistic streak and a service-based heart. She is proud to be here serving SELF and making it an amazing event.
Over the years, she has taught classes on self-suspension, fire play, wax play, and the art of the striptease. Look for her running around the event in the FABULOUS dress and sky-high heels, helping to make sure things are running smoothly.
Cynthia: Volunteer Chair
Cynthia has been active in the BDSM community for over 10 years, previously leading Georgia’s G.H.O.S.T. and Atlanta Kinksters with Kids (AKK), facilitating P.R.I.M.E., and founding Greenville’s Pathfinders and s-type groups.
Currently she is the director of MAsT: Greenville SC, and a group leader of the Piedmont Area Kinksters (PAK). She has presented on Primal play and a variety of spiritual and service oriented topics. In 2014 she was honored with the gift of serving SouthEast LeatherFest as the Volunteer Coordinator, and was excited to join Twisting Culture in 2019.
Cynthia is passionate about theater and the arts, values creativity and responsibility, and lives and teaches by the L.I.S.T. philosophy. She can be found on FetLife as -Cynthia.
Lord Fenrir: Supply and Setup Coordinator
Early 2015, my eyes peered into a world I could not look away from. Ever since that night, I dove right into the deep end, headfirst, and still have not come up for air. I discovered structure, respect, and a world where I will never have to hide who I am. These discoveries led me to my first SELF event. Seeing all the attendees in a new way, the unspoken language they all know, and my desire to learn more. Here is where I volunteered my time, fulfilled many curiosities, and was welcomed with an overwhelmingly, warm experience. I found more of a home and family than I ever knew I could have.
The Atlanta community has been my home since day one. From that day, I have become an evolving educator, leader, and organizer of many events. I have taught all up and down the eastern seaboard including Tampa to New York City. Co-founded small groups and assisted in running much larger ones.
I give me efforts to steadily working to build this community, and bringing SELF back to an enjoyable place for us all to learn and grow. Now, I am able to serve my community with so much love and spirit. It will be honor to bring SELF alive for you all in the future. Lord Fenrir's pronouns are he/him.
Lady Victoria: Fun Programming Chair
Lady Victoria (she/her) attended her first SELF in 2007 shortly after beginning her lifestyle and leather journey. She has always felt like SELF was her kinky home and is excited to be able to contribute to such an awesome event. She is currently living in Charlotte, NC and previously owned a public dungeon in Greenville, SC, The Warehouse, for three years and taught classes on various subjects there. In addition to being the Fun Coordinator for SELF, she is a member of The House of Valor and the educational director for Dominae of the Carolinas. She identifies as a bi-sexual, poly, dominant female. She loves meeting new people, so if you see her out and about introduce yourself anytime! You can reach her on Fetlife as LadyVictoria001.
GoddessMW: Social Presence Team Lead
GoddessMW (she/her) is a Master, statuesque in presence, possesses a wicked sense of humor and is often described as a Sensual Sadist.
She is a second generation Domme who grew up in a Female led, D/s household with Leo parents. Her family motto is ‘hunt or be hunted.’
Goddess entered the Atlanta scene via BFD (Black FemDoms-Atlanta) and B.A.M. (Black Atlanta Munch) in 2011. As a lifestyle choice supporter, educator and registered nurse, Goddess specializes in medical play with an emphasis on N.A.S. (negotiation, assessment and safety). She has presented nationally and locally participates in Atlanta Mentors. Goddess is a Distinguished Toastmaster and believes effective communication is the foundation of productivity.
Goddess is a Leather Woman. She pledged WiLA (Women in Leather-Atlanta) in 2016, served as Pledge Master in 2017 and Sargent-at-arms from 2018 to present. WiLA are curators and griots for the Carter/Johnson Leather Library- Atlanta Annex. Goddess is a board member of the Leather History Preservation Foundation. She describes her Leather Family as the ultimate toolbox. Each possesses a unique skill/trait that she utilizes to repair and create.
Goddess is a former co - producer/hostess of Georgia Femme Dommes Events (2012- 2017) advocated the expression of Female energy and education within a safe environment. She is an advisor for FSM (Female subs Munch) and co-creator of Natural Dommes featuring the use of essential oils in skin care products for treatment, pampering, sensation play and aftercare.
Goddess is a monthly platelets donor (2017 to present) and participated in two Red Cross You-Tube videos(2019). No stranger to S.E.L.F., Goddess has volunteered on the First Aid Team, served as a bartender (cocktail parties) and honorably judged in 2019.
Miss Bettie: Website Content and Contest Coordinator
Miss Bettie (she/her) is a queer, polyamorous switch from Jacksonville, FL. She was the 2008 Ms. Southeast Leatherfest and the 2007 Ms. North Carolina Leather.
Miss Bettie has been active in the BDSM and Leather Lifestyles for over 14 years. She has presented and volunteered all over the Southeast and the nation. She is an activist, a brat, an educator, and a leather woman. Her activism involves issues surrounding domestic violence, LGBTQIA+ rights, gender rights, and sexual rights. She is also passionate about education and the transfer of ideas from one generation to the next.
Find her on Fetlife as MissBettie.
Boy Harley: Staging God
Boy harley has been lighting, building, loading in and out, and fixing sets, lights, special effects, and sound for theatre, corporate events, film and video, high school productions and even religious broadcasting. He has handled the staging for SELF since 1997, as well as managed the staging for SE Olympus a few times, and various other leather events.
Boy harley was trained in Old Guard at the Sanctuary of a Dark Angel in 1997 and took part in helping the Sanctuary run. Primarily a submissive bottom, boy harley has been known to switch on occasion. His interests are: bondage, leather, exhibitionism, mindplay, electricity, watersports, wax, and shaving (not necessarily in that order). He has only one piercing (left earlobe), but could see getting one or both nipples pierced, if done in the context of a scene.