SELF's 25th Anniversary Parties and Meet Ups
Caucus for Asians, South Asians, Southeast Asians and Pacific Islanders (APIs) and their Admirers |
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This is a group discussion for anyone who identifies as, or loves, Asian, South Asian, Southeast Asian or Pacific Islander (APIs). APIs are often unrepresented in Kink spaces. We have complicated histories and experiences with fetish, sex, body image, and the beauty ideal. Come share your stories, frustrations, interests, hurt, shame, hot moments, and talents, in a safe and supportive culturally affirming space. Let’s support each other so we can fully enjoy Kink spaces and help other APIs to find sexual liberation. |
Latino Caucus |
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Latino Hispano-Americano brothers and sisters Y/you are invited to a Latino Caucus meeting whose purpose is to discuss issues affecting Hispanics and Latinos in the Leather, M/S, BDSM, and Kink aspects of the Lifestyle. Let’s explore ways to get involved, continue our work, build our future, and leave a solid foundation and legacy for the Latinos coming after us. How can we as a community can be more inclusive? |
Canvas and Cocktails Thursday 7pm-9pm Room CR 125 |
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Bring the cocktails of your choice and sign up to paint or be painted in our Canvas and Cocktails party! Body paint and some wine will be provided for your pleasure. Please remember that all canvases must bring a cover up to arrive and leave in. |
Singles Mingle Thursday 7pm-9pm Room CR 129 |
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Want to come meet new people in a fun, relaxed environment? Stop by the singles mixer to play games, have fun and mingle! |
Recovery in the Lifestyle Coffee Hour Thursday 8:30pm-9:30pm Room CR121 |
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Recovery in the Lifestyle is open to anyone in recovery and those who support them. Come share your strength, hope and connect with other people in recovery at this open meeting. |
Little’s Story Time Thursday 9pm-10pm Room CR129 |
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Bring your stuffy and blanky... curl up and listen to Ms. Beth read stories about a fuzzy beaver and more... |
FLAIR's Simply Fun Play Mixer! Thursday 10pm-1am Room CR 121 |
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Join FLAIR (Female- Led Authority Inspired Relationships) for an opportunity to "mix it up" and then "turn it out" with Women in Charge! We'll enjoy some cocktails and light snacks before diving into some fun and sadistic twists to classic games all geared to delight and dazzle Women in Charge! Open to anyone who wants to celebrate Women in Charge. Come alone or with partner(s), as long as you cum...with FLAIR! |
Game Night sponsored by House of Reaper Thursday 10pm-1am Room CR123 |
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Cards Against Humanity, Uno, Skipbo, phase 10, Fluxx..oh my! All SELF attendees are invited to come join the House of Reaper for Game Night!! Play all your favorite games. Chips and bottles of water are being provided but feel free to bring the beverage/snack of your choice and hang out with us for some Fun! |
Welcome Cocktail Party sponsored by House of Valor Thursday 10pm-1am Room CR125 |
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Come and join us for a welcome meet and greet with cocktails and House of Valor’s fabulous signature Dragon’s Blood cocktail!! All SELF attendees are welcome. There will be trivia sheets to fill out for those that wish to do so, and prize baskets will be awarded Friday! Trivia on what you ask? Some of our favorite topics Leather and Sex!! |
SELF Pamporium Friday 10am-2pm Room CR121 |
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Stressed? Need a little me time? Come be pampered! SELF is hosting a pamporium this year!! Enjoy a face mask, body massage or foot massage in our soothing pamproium given by one of our fabulous volunteers. Sign-up board is outside of Room CR 121. First come, first pampered! |
Canvas and Cocktails Friday 2pm-4pm Room CR 127 |
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Bring the cocktails of your choice and sign up to paint or be painted in our Canvas and Cocktails party! Body paint and some wine will be provided for your pleasure. Please remember that all canvases must bring a cover up to arrive and leave in. |
FLAIR Hosted Women in Charge Roundtable Friday 2pm-4pm Room CR 121 |
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Women in Charge... Not Yo' Mama's FemDom! Join FLAIR for a Roundtable Discussion on the various identities and expressions of Female Led dynamics in Lifestyle Communities. No longer restricted to the title "Domme" or "FemDom", women are developing the expressions and language that suits their dynamic(s) best. From Madame to Daddy, Women are not only taking command of their relationships/ dynamics but they are also defining new expressions of Master/ slave dynamics. Join our discussion as we explore the many identifies and expressions of Women within Lifestyle dynamics. |
Pegasus Leather Levi Transgender Tea Party Friday 2pm-4pm Room CR123 |
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Please join us for a non-binary and transgender tea party! Coffee and water will be available if tea is not your fancy! Finger sandwiches and light snacks will also be provided by the members of Pegasus Leather Levi Club. |
SELF Volunteer Appreciation Party Friday 4pm-6pm Room CR129 |
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Celebrating 25 years of service!! All SELF Volunteers are invited to come join Cynthia for music, drinks and snacks to show our appreciation of all your hard work! |
Poly Speed Dating Friday 7pm-8pm Room CR 127 |
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Looking for like-minded polyamourous people to get to know and possibly connect with? Join us for a speed dating round or two and see who you meet! |
Blood, Sweat, and Queers Speed Dating Friday 7pm-9pm Room CR 129 |
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Are you cruisin' for a bruisin'? Join Blood, Sweat, and Queers for a pre-play party Speed Dating event! Whether you are looking for someone to beat your butt, a co-top for a fun group scene, or another switch to wrestle for dominance, we got you covered! This event is open to anyone who identifies as Queer (Queer is being used here as an umbrella term for those who identify as LGBTQIA2S+). |
Littles’ Fun Time Friday 7pm-9pm Room CR 123 |
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Welcoming all Littles’ and Middles to join House of Valor for coloring, puzzles, arts & crafts and games with prizes! We hope to see you all there. |
Blood, Sweat and Queers Play Party Friday 10pm-2am Rooms Georgia 5, 6, 11 & 12 |
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Join our hosts, Blood, Sweat, and Queers for our Friday night play party. This is the perfect place to bring your new play partner from the pre-party Queer Speed Dating event! Starting at 11pm, pets & handlers can enjoy an hour of playtime with like-minded pet players. Bring those paws, masks, and leashes, folks! While this event is inclusive of all sexual and gender identities, the space will have Big Queer Energy. Happy perving and playing! |
Game Night sponsored by House of Reaper Friday 10pm-2am Room CR123 |
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Cards Against Humanity, Uno, Skipbo, phase 10, Fluxx..oh my! All SELF attendees are invited to come join the House of Reaper for Game Night!! Play all your favorite games. Chips and bottles of water are being provided but feel free to bring the beverage/snack of your choice and hang out with us for some Fun! |
Black FemDoms-Atlanta Cocktails and Charcuterie Friday 10pm-2am Room CR125 |
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Join the Women of Black FemDoms-Atlanta as they host Cocktails and Charcuterie. You're invited to meet and greet FemDoms and those who love them in a casual and relaxing atmosphere that lends to service, pampering, and finding your special place. Come, don't miss this! |
Latinos in Leather Connect Friday 10pm-2am Room CR121 |
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Please join us a night of Fiesta at SELF. Come one come all! Musica Latina, Hors d’oeuvres, cocktails, and have a taste of spicy Latinos-Hispano Americanos… you don’t want to miss it! |
Littles’ Breakfast Saturday 8am-10am Room CR123 |
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Come join us for the littles breakfast! Bring your stuffies! Footie jammies is acceptable wear. Fun crafts and games with prizes. Have one of our pancake artists make you a pancake or be your own artist and make your own pancake shapes. Fresh fruit and assorted cereals also available. If you need gluten free pancakes, please let little Stevie know. |
Regional MAST Meeting Saturday 9:30am-10:45am Room CR125 |
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Calling all MAsT Chapters within the Southeast! MAsT is holding its SE Regional Meeting and would like you to join others at SELF to network and get information about MAsT. This meeting is for members and Directors throughout the Southeast; Alabama, Mississippi, Georgia, Louisiana, Florida, North and South Carolina and Tennessee. We'll provide valuable updates for MAsT Chapter Directors, as well as discuss the challenges and the rewards of running a MAsT Chapter in the Southeast. In addition to connecting with other Chapter Directors, this is an opportunity to understand how to better support the growth of your Chapter while still maintaining your sanity. If you are visiting from another region and are attending SELF, stop by and say hello! |
MAsT: Marietta Women Meeting Saturday 11:00am-12:00pm Room CR125 |
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MAsT Marietta Women Chapter meeting. |
SELF Pamporium Saturday 10am-2pm Room CR121 |
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Stressed? Need a little me time? Come be pampered! SELF is hosting a pamporium this year!! Enjoy a face mask, body massage or foot massage in our soothing pamproium given by one of our fabulous volunteers. Sign-up board is outside of Room CR 121. First come, first pampered! |
TNG Speed Dating Saturday 2pm-4pm Room CR 127 |
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Just for The Next Generation ages 21-35! Looking for other people in your own age group? Come join us for rounds of speed dating. Let’s make some connections! |
Little's Frolic and Fun Time with Ms Beth Saturday 2pm-6pm Room CR 123 |
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Come meet and interact with other littles! Bring your favorite stuffy and get into little space! Color a picture for your mommy/daddy/CG....make a friendship bracelet for your new SELF friend or BFF! Beat your buddy at connect 4 or giant jenga! See how flexible you are playing twister! Come have fun with us! |
2022 Southeast Womxn and Girls of Leather Gathering Saturday 2:15pm-3:30pm Room CR121 |
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People of Color (POC) Caucus: CONNECT through Diversity Saturday 4:00pm-5:15pm Room Georgia 2 |
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Looking for more diversity in your community? Hoping to learn more about the unique experiences of people of color? Then come out to the People of Color Caucus at SELF and connect with POCs in your community. Let's CONNECT together as we collaborate and celebrate each other's unique perspectives. We will host an unfiltered, open discussion on the issues, challenges, and rewards encountered by POCs in the community. This meeting is open to anyone. Even if you don't identify as a person of color, you are still welcome to attend to learn more about the unique experiences of other members within the community. Let's talk and CONNECT together while celebrating People of Color in our communities. |
Boot Black Chocolate Cake Saturday 4:15pm-5:15pm Room CR129 |
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Boot Blacks and Chocolate Cake enough said! Come join us for a great time! |
Dominae of the Carolinas Foot Party Saturday 10pm-2am Room CR129 |
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This event is for foot massage enthusiasts. Please join us for light snacks and drinks while enjoying giving and/or receiving foot massages after a long day of attending other events. |
ONYX Southeast Cocktail Party Saturday 10pm-2am Room CR125 |
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ONYX Southeast welcome all attendees of SELF to join us for time a fellowship. We will have our ONYX Cocktail party with our famous ONYX Punch and other snacks during SELF weekend. The party is open to all and we can't wait to fellowship with our Leather Brothers and Sisters! |
Game Night sponsored by House of Reaper Saturday 10pm-2am Room CR123 |
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Cards Against Humanity, Uno, Skipbo, phase 10, Fluxx..oh my! All SELF attendees are invited to come join the House of Reaper for Game Night!! Play all your favorite games. Chips and bottles of water are being provided but feel free to bring the beverage/snack of your choice and hang out with us for some Fun! |
Piedmont Area Kink Play Party Saturday 10pm-2am Rooms Georgia 5, 6, 11 &12 |
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Join Piedmont Area Kink (PAK) as they host the Saturday Night Play Party with a Family Reunion! Come hear the awesome music and play the night away! |
Kinky Catwalk Saturday 10pm-2am Room CR121 |
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Did You Hear?! The Kinky Catwalk is here, and your chance for you to show off your kinky style. The Red Carpet? Check! BDSM has been influencing fashion for decades through hardcore elements and kinky-inspired designs. Now it is your time to walk the red carpet and take a photo in front of the Step and Repeat. Let's Create some lasting memories together!!! |