July 24th Hosting Social for CAPEX  (come see Lady Ds  race play demo)
July 14 - 18 West Virgina Presenting on  Daddy & boi  @ CAMPOUT Walton, West Virginia
July 31 - Dinner in Atlanta -
August 7 Working Warehouse Job all weeekend! Blah
August 12-15 Las Angeles California Patheon of Leather / International Olympus
August 27-29 Fri / Sat / Sun Ottawa Canada
Ottawa Leatherfest VI, and Gay Pride
Sept 18 The South Carolina Leather Contest  (Den Daddy)
Sept 24 - 26 Charlotte North Carolina    Fetish Fair Flea Market
October Atlanta GA,  Southeast Olympus
November 6, ARM Atlanta GA @ 1763, Presenting Strap on Sex with and Perthman!
December 11th for the Formal Leather Ball fundraiser for NCSF, Presented by House of Decorum

What a fantastic weekend! I have often said that I already felt like I was part of the SELF family even before I ran for the South East Title and if you have ever been to SELF before….you understand why I feel this way.  This year was a little different than last year for me. I didn’t get to attend many of the classes due to running around getting everything ready for Saturday night, however; I did get to see everyone’s smiling faces and all the good lucks, hugs, kisses, and support was just unreal. The energy of the whole weekend filled the whole building as soon as you walked in.  I have to say my nerves were “kinda” a wreck on the drive down trying to remember if I had everything and making sure everything was packed excluding the kitchen sink (in a rain storm of course). As soon as I walked through the door…. Everything was lifted; Old friends and new faces covered the floor. I wasn’t even able to register that night because of all the excitement of seeing so many friends from ALL over the South East and further. I also got to meet a few new people that are sure to become great friendships.

I am so honored to have been a part of SouthEast LeatherFest 15th Anniversary and words cannot even describe what it feels like to have the privilege of holding the Mr. SELF Title.

The biggest surprise (other than seeing the SELF BUTTERFLY naked as I was getting ice) was the SELF Leather Patch. At first I thought it was a prop for pictures and had no idea it was for my vest!! It’s amazing!!!

I will be removing the  NCLC 2009 patch that I treasure and  after much thought, and the key note speech made Sunday by Master Larry and slave barb, I have decided to donate the NCLC patch to the Leather Quilt Project.  It took a lot of thought and although I hate to part with such a big part of my Leather Journey of 2009, I know it will be preserved through time.  Thank you Master Larry and slave barb for such a wonderful and inspirational speech.

I would like to thank EVERYONE involved in making SELF such a GREAT event!

 A special thanks to all those who donated to my auction basket this year.  Bullmoose paddles, Miss Rae & pet, Master Sergeants Wood n Leather, Evil Geoff and Ms. Tori, Boot Black andy, Whispering Pines, Master Pam, Uncle Abdul, and Heart & Chainmail.

I’m looking extremely forward to this year and serving the community as Mr. SouthEast LeatherFest 2010! I can’t be any prouder with all smiles as part of the SELF family. Thank you all so much for all your support!

I recently read a thread on-line discussing how winning a Title is just a pre- determined fashion show. This was very disheartening to me.  During my run for Title at SELF not only do I feel I put my heart and soul and only presented  my “true self” I also grew  from listening to my judges advice, the support of the community , the support of Lady Cathrine and her staff and so many more.  It takes a lot to run for a title and although many just see the on stage fun, it’s a lot of work and truly a rewarding growing experience.  It just doesn’t stop there,,, After receiving the honor of  such a pristine  title you must travel, reach out to other groups, volunteer, be there and represent your title in a manner  that reflects what SELF is. SELF is many things to me. First and foremost its part of my extended family.  It’s a place to come together and celebrate Leather and Love and everything in between.  Now how do I take all I have received from SELF and holding the Mr. SELF Title? Work hard for the community as a whole, Reach out to groups and do what I can to make a difference by volunteering, presenting, fund-raising, attending, or anything else I can.  It’s not about wearing a SASH, it’s about your Leather heart and soul and being a Leader for your community.  I  will always do my best to work hard in building Our community and represent honourably.

I have also set a goal that I hope all will support.    The LAAP Event Calendar ( The Leather Aids Awareness Project  Event Calendar)

With the help of slave gypsie (M/s SELF 2010), I have recently started this project to help bring awareness to the community not only to promote safe sex but also raise money for those living and infected with HIV/AIDS .

My goal is to have  2 sets of calendars, one full of Leather men and one full of Leather women. Even if your straight, gay or in between you have a calendar that list upcoming events,  full of hot leather bodies, and all the money gets donated to help aid those living with HIV/AIDS. This can also be something as a collectors item to bring to events to have signed by those who "pose" in the calendar. 

I'm just getting started on this project and gypsie is in the process of helping get the website up and running. Ill have more information  in the following weeks; however, if you have any questions or suggestions please contact me at mr.self2010@yahoo.com

Along with the calendar, this year has simply been amazing. I'm gonna try to make this short and not too drawn out on how proud and honored I have been to be a part of so many wonderful groups and events.

Canada

  Miss Jenn, proprietor of Breathless, the pan sexual play space where Ottawa Leather Fest is held, was covered in a capping ceremony and is now formally known as Miss Jenn Ma'am. She was also inducted as the newest member of Mama's Family. Miss Jenn was a nominee for Woman of the Year at Pantheon of Leather XX and I can see exactly why!!!
Miss Jenn was simply fabulous, as well as having a rocking body!! She made me laugh the whole night and honestly I’m gonna miss being around her great energy. If you ever get the chance to go to Breathless,, It’s well worth the trip!! It was extremely powerful and moving to get to be a part of her ceremony and although we just met I’m sure our paths will cross again and I can be proud to say I was a part of this special moment in her life.

  I was honored by being asked to be a judge for The South Carolina Leather Contest.

I would like to congratulate the winners of The SCLC Pat (saddlebag's slut)who earned the Title of SC Bootblack and Sir Dan (Dannase) who earned the Title of Mr. SC Leather 2010

Thanks to Master Regi for all is hard work for making this a fantastic contest and Ms Jan and the House of Decorum and ALL the volunteers for making a FANTASTIC MEAL for all of us The members of The Leather Order of the Midlands for their support

Along with everyone else who volunteered and helped out the T3WD &7Th Annual Vendor Fair was off the chain!

Master Regi also invited me to be a part of Rainbow Radio in S.C. discussing Leather, and BDSM. This was also a great privilege and honor however it was a little strange with a huge microphone in your face.

Fetish Flea Fair in Charlotte N.C. was fantastic this year and props to CTan for all her hard work!

Camp Out W. Virgina I had the privilege of presenting 2 classes. This was my first time attending Camp Out and it was truly a positive learning experience.

The Society ( Jacksonville BDSM Group FetLife) This is one group if ya get the chance to visit is the shiz dig! I cannot tell you how much fun I have at Ms Dis. This has truly become a second home for me (even if I have to drive 5 hours one way) Its SO worth the trip! Even before or good byes I already miss the friends I have made there. Ya Might even get the chance to under Beef Cakes  kilt! ; )

I have also been able to attend a few new munches that are starting off with a bang! Burke County Munch group along with Catawba County Munch Group. Only problem is I'm now stretching my Leathers from all the weight I'm gaining.

There is one other very special person I would like to mention in this column and that would be Ms. Jan of  The House of Decorum.  She is having The Formal Dinner and Leather Ball on December 11 for NCSF. I really cant even say how much I look up to this amazing woman and ALL she does for the community. She is truly a rare jewel and is always looking into what she can do NEXT to help out in the Leather Community. She is someone I respect and look up to every day. I will be attending The Dinner along with my very first MAST meeting coming up this Friday!! Look forward to seeing everyone as well!!

I know I have only touched based on a few  but if you are still reading my ramble and  would like to talk further about me presenting/attending/volunteering or anything else,,,Please email me at mr.self2010@yahoo.com

  YFIL

PhantomBlue
Mr. SELF 2010

Happy New Year Everyone!
This past year has went by so fast and has already started out with a kink explosion.
To start off the year I attended The Asheville Kinksters Association Munch which drew out a record number of 47 hungry kinky people. It was great seeing everyone come from ALL areas including allot from S.C. to support a munch.
 
This was a very special munch for me as well for several reasons I would like to share....
 
After the munch, a bunch of us decided to head to a local gay bar to hang out, catch up and continue the energy from the munch. This bar (Hairspray) just happen to be one of my old hang outs from long ago BEFORE I found out there was even a community or even a name for me besides "Your a Freak" It seems every time I "hooked up" with someone as soon as I gave them a smack on the ass they would run or just say they weren't into it.
 
Now I tell you this because at the after party we all started dancing and I had ask permission from someones Master if I could give His girl a spanking on the dance floor over a table, He said she would love it so I dragged a table to the middle of the dance floor and spanked her to the beat of the music. After we had both came down from our highs from the scene it had occurred to me what a release this one scene had been. Not only have I grown and continue to grow and learn but I had found others that excepted who I was. I have not only found acceptance in the community but now feel comfortable and except myself.
 Although we had pretty much taken over the bar with all who had came from the munch, there were still a few " vanillas" standing around. Although I'm sure a few were thinking "what the hell is that all about" I'm sure there were others just as myself so long ago knowing now they are not alone in the feelings they have buried deep and knowing now they are not alone. It seems every encounter I  have with members from the lifestyle, such as this one, has meaning, growth, and new experiences that I will always cherish. This was defiantly how I needed to start the New Year,,, Surrounded by Leather spanking to a good beat!!!!  I look even more forward to visiting more groups meeting, sharing, and just spending time with others who at one time thought they were freaks and now know that even freaks come together as a community just as they have for many many years before and many many more to come!
 
 
Yours In Leather
Mr.SELF 2011

This year is going by so fast I can’t believe it’s almost time again for SELF.  These past few months have been such a world wind of pride and honor to be part of the SELF family.  I was given the great opportunity to be a judge at this year’s North Carolina Leather Contest. This day was very important to me for several reasons. Last year I was unable to attend and step down as Mr. NCLC due to a family emergency. This was hard for me not to have closure and thank those who had supported throughout my Title year as the NCLC title holder. That year was also the year I was introduced to Miss Bettie who at the time I was running was the contestant handler. We soon became close friends and I cherish her friendship and support she has given me. Through the years we have laughed, cried and even sometimes disagreed but she has always been there not only for me, but for the community. I was astonished when she told me that she had not earned her boots. I could write a book of things she has done and volunteered for but for journal purposes I will just say it was the right time, place and energy to present her with her boots.  She earned them and I am so proud to be the one who presented them to her. On stage was also Master Rick, slave gypsie, Master Roy, Master Pam Nic and alex. Thank You all so much for being a part of this and special thanks to MP for running her tail off making sure the boots arrived!!!

Along with NCLC there have been so many other things going on.

Frolicon (which was my first Frolicon) ROCKED!!!!!!! There was so much to do and I had a blast!

Also as some may know Sir Dan (Mr. SCLC) has had heart bypass. As part of a fundraiser to help out with bills several fundraisers have been set forth to help Him out in his time of need.  I will also be part of one of these fundraisers on Friday April 29th at Club Cabaret in Hickory NC. There’s gonna be a DRAG U show and YES I will be in FEMALE Drag!!!! So please come out and show your support for Dan or at least hold me up when I fall down in heels.

There’s so much more to be said, but I try not to make journals too lengthy. I would like to thank all the vendors who so graciously donated items for my auction basket for my next Title run at American Brotherhood Weekend that will take place October 7-9 2011 in Chicago at The Leather Archives and Museum!

Thank You ALL for your support!!!!!  See you at SELF!!!!!!!!

Mr. SELF 2010
Phantom Blue

Email: mr.self2010@yahoo.com